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Webinar Recap: How to Modernize Association Traditions Without Destroying Your Legacy

Written by Terri Herrmann | Jan 9, 2026 4:46:42 PM

A conversation with Barry Schieferstein, COO of the American Society for Non-Destructive Testing.

The Challenge Every Association Faces

Your organization has a decades-old tradition that everyone knows about, but fewer and fewer people actually care about. Maybe it's a ceremonial collar worn by the president. Maybe it's a three and a half hour awards banquet. Maybe it's a governance structure that made sense in 1950 but feels unwieldy in 2025.

You know it needs to change. But the moment you suggest it, you hear: "We've always done it that way."

Welcome to the third rail of association management – those untouchable traditions that feel too risky to change, even when they're holding you back.

What Is a "Third Rail"?

The term comes from subway systems, where the electrified third rail powers the train. Touching them is seriously unsafe. In associations, third rails are those traditions and practices that feel equally dangerous to touch:

  • Symbolic ceremonies that feel outdated to younger members
  • Conference formats that haven't evolved with how people learn
  • Governance structures with boards of 50, 100, or even more people
  • Membership models that worked for decades but are now driving decline
  • Awards programs that honor the same way they did generations ago

These traditions often have adamant defenders. Sometimes they're tied to a past leader's passion project. Sometimes they're simply "the way we've always done it." But here's the problem: members don't rebel against tradition, they just quietly disengage.

The Cost of Inaction

Recent research from Forj's State of the Member Experience report reveals some critical data points:

  1. Lack of personalization and irrelevant experiences is the #1 reason for member frustration
  2. Members join for learning and community
  3. Members stay for learning and community
  4. For the first time ever, in-person events don’t make the top 3 reasons members join and stay, yet so much reliance is placed on events as a primary revenue driver. 

The time to evolve is now. Consider Blockbuster. They didn't fail because people stopped loving movies. They failed because they defended the way movies were rented until they became obsolete. Their third rails? Physical stores, late fees, and the belief that familiarity equaled loyalty.

Netflix won by removing friction, not by adding more stores.

Five Pillars for Breaking the Third Rail

1. Start with Board Structure

Modern boards should be strategic, not operational. Yet many associations still operate with boards of 20, 50, or even hundreds of members who dive into operational details instead of providing strategic direction.

Current research suggests the optimal board size is 8-15 members with some experts arguing the truly optimal size is just 5. Why? Because smaller teams are more agile, more focused, and more effective.

At the American Society for Non-Destructive Testing (ASNT), the board is moving from 20 members to 12 or fewer. When they opened this up for member comment, the only feedback they received was that they weren't going far enough.

The key is role clarity. Board members should provide strategic direction and oversight. Staff should execute. When Barry Schieferstein, ASNT's COO, encounters board members who want to manage operations, he asks: "You're certified as an expert in your technical field, right? Well, our director of events is certified in running events. Why don't you let them do their job?"

2. Build a Culture of Experimentation

Creating an environment where change is welcomed doesn't happen overnight. It requires:

Modernizing the Board Itself

  • Form a leadership development committee to identify and fill gaps
  • Conduct regular board self-assessments
  • Stop listening to the one loud voice that complains about everything
  • Ask: "How many complaints did we actually receive?" (Often it's just one person)

Shifting from Management to Strategy

  • Share everything with the board – complete transparency builds trust
  • Let the board focus on strategic questions, not operational details
  • Give staff permission to be the experts in their domains

Rebuilding Staff Culture

  • Create psychological safety where failure is seen as data, not disaster
  • Embrace "fail quick and fail correctly"
  • Celebrate experimentation, even when it doesn't work out

When trust exists between board and staff, risk tolerance skyrockets. At one conference session, when asked to rate their board's risk tolerance on a scale of 1-10, ASNT staff members said "15."

3. Know When to Evolve vs. Eliminate

Not every tradition needs to be blown up. Some just need to evolve.

Ask yourself: Does this tradition still spark belonging? If yes, keep it—but modernize the delivery.

Evolution Example: Awards Program 

ASNT had a traditional three-and-a-half-hour awards banquet that had become a "snooze fest." But awards themselves still had value. So instead of eliminating awards, they asked: "If we were designing this today from scratch, how would we do it?"

Their solution: Spread awards throughout general sessions, spotlighting winners in front of much larger audiences than ever attended the banquet. The tradition remained; the format evolved.

Evolution Example: Membership Model 

After nine years of declining membership, ASNT posed the question: "What's the primary barrier to membership?" The answer: cost.

They implemented a freemium model (think LinkedIn) where anyone can join for free and get basic benefits, but premium tiers unlock the "cool stuff." Membership grew by 25% in one year, with 80% of new members never having been in their database before, generating $120,000 in incremental revenue.

4. Lead with Why, Not What

When people resist change, it's usually because they don't understand the reasoning behind it. Start with the "why" before presenting the "what."

For the membership model change, ASNT led with the why:

  • Nine years of declining membership
  • This isn't just our problem – it's association-wide
  • If we don't change, membership becomes irrelevant

Only after building this context did they present the solution. And when they put it to a vote? Unanimous approval with no discussion.

Dealing with Emotional Attachments

Sometimes traditions are tied to specific individuals. These require extra care:

  • Acknowledge what worked well in the past
  • Celebrate the original intent and success
  • Explain why member needs have evolved
  • Show data that supports the change
  • Include stakeholders in the solution

When ASNT proposed eliminating a membership tier that less than 1% of members held, the board member who had championed it initially resisted. But once they explained the why, including the administrative burden it created, he understood and supported the change.

5. Progress Over Perfection

Don't wait for the perfect solution. Celebrate incremental progress:

  • Highlight board assessment improvements at each meeting to show momentum
  • Recognize early adopters on staff who embrace change
  • Extract and share lessons learned from experiments that don't work
  • Create psychological safety so people feel comfortable trying new things

At ASNT, no department has gone without major change in the past few years. From membership models to publication formats to conference structures, they're always experimenting. And they've built a culture where this constant evolution isn't scary, it's expected.

Your Path Forward

Change in associations is not a one-time project. It's an ongoing process that requires patience, persistence, and courage.

Start by asking these questions:

  1. What traditions in our organization feel untouchable?
  2. Which ones still serve our members, and which ones serve our past?
  3. Is our board sized and structured for agility?
  4. Do we have the trust and psychological safety needed for experimentation?
  5. Are we starting with "why" when proposing changes?

Remember: If you're not changing, you're not growing. And if you're not growing, you're dying. Survival requires evolution.

The third rail doesn't have to electrocute you. With the right approach, you can transform it from a source of danger into a source of power, and an energy that propels your organization forward while honoring what made you great in the first place.

Key Takeaways

  • Members quietly disengage from outdated organizations – they don't rebel, they just leave
  • Start at the top: Board transformation enables all other change
  • Build trust first: Experimentation requires psychological safety
  • Evolution over elimination: Keep traditions that spark belonging, modernize the delivery
  • Lead with why: People resist what they don't understand
  • Celebrate progress: Small wins build momentum for bigger changes
  • Change is constant: Build a culture where evolution is expected, not feared

The associations that will thrive in the next decade aren't the ones that protect their past – they're the ones that have the courage to honor their legacy while building their future.

Missed the session or want to revisit the conversation? View the webinar recording here.